Life seemed to be ok, home life was not too bad but then suddenly BANG it all appears to be crashing around me. I feel like evrything is against me. My love life isn't exactly what you would call straight forward but that could be easily fixed when I can get passed the difficulties.I have cut and the thought of going to the dr makes it even worse and my situation going to the dr will only make the homelife situation worse too I don't know where to go for the best.
Come here and chat to us at least we dont have the power to section you or worse now i eurge you again to come and talk to us before you cut and not after. That way at least we can talk to you. We all love ya to bits katie, we dont want a message or email saying you have passed away trying to make bacon for the sunday fryup . Now on a more serius note please come and talk to us we can offer you some virtual support hun
What's making you feel like this? If it's life at home change it. If it's the relationship you are in change it. We are our own worst enemies sometimes. Doctors and medication can help to an extent. But the power to change circumstances in our lives sometimes lies only in our hands. Don't stay in enviroments or situations that are making you unhappy. Especially if you have the power to change things for yourself for the better. You're in my thoughts.
Cutting isn't going to help it gives a temporary release but in the long run it does nothing. I can't begin to imagine how badly you must be hurting inside to do something like physically hurt yourself. But you need to really make an effort not to hurt yourself and do something else instead more constructive I know it's probably easier said than done because in those moments it's hard to think sensibly. But as Proclaim said if the situations you find yourself in are preventable prevent them. Here if you fancy a chat!
Likewise i will reinforce, if you need is Katie please come and chat to us. Dont leave us in the dark as what we dont know we carnt help with
Thank you all for your kind responses Im feeling a lot better today. I know the issues are with me still but I got a deep telling off from someone very close and I know the person hurt deep down knowing I had done the things I had done. I know what you are saying proclaim and I am listening, sometimes changing things feels like im running away from it but sometimes change is what is needed. The cutting did help initially (right in the moment) but the situation is still with me so I know it hasnt really helped. I got through the night with no more and was very pleased with myself. I am gonna try the posting before doing thingsI have too much to loose by keeping it up Thank you all xx
Indeed you do have far too much to loose, Most of us famillys and also partners. I hope we can help you next time (if there is one) before you go and make yourself into bacon
Just thought I would give a quick update. I have managed to get back on track i think..I have been in some stressful situations and managed to distract myself more so I havent hurt myself. Things at home are just plodding through a hopeless situation but I am handling it . I do feel a little more postive than I did and am buiblding strength up to do the right thing.
I'm glad to hear things are looking abit better for you. Remember where we are if you need us though!
