Ok so I'm new here but I have got to get some things out before I'm eaten up inside. So here is the story: I was raped by my boyfriend when I was 14. Iwas told by the police that it would be hard to do anything about it. Ihad waited too long before Itold anyone and the circumstances made the accusation questionable. Narly three years later, his new girlfriend recieved word of him having raped me and confronted me about it. Itold her that it happened and she decided that since she didn't want to believe that he would do something like that, that she just wouldn't believe it. Now it's been only a few months since that and she told me very recently that she should have listened to me about it. I know I'm not supposed to blame myself for this, but I do and it is making me feel terribly. I did nothing to stop him from doing it again. I am really losing it right about now.
Chill, relax, it is not your fault, that girl was just stubborn and did not choose to heed your advice. Nobody is forcing her to believe what you said and nobody would know what will happen them in the future. It is not your fault, relax.
