Almost every girl I talk to likes "badboys" and/ or "players". Can you girls on the forum explain why you find "badboys" and "players" attractive?
I wish I knew the answer to that question. I myself have been for a long time trying to get out of the habit of liking this type of man. I think maybe it could be some factor of that he is not a people-pleaser that woman like. I don't know. I would never put up with a man not knowing if he wants to be with me though. However, I have even tried to suggest to some that they can have as many women as they want as long as they are honest about it. I find out most of the time though maybe all they want to do is cheat, because when I challenge them by telling them if they want what they want then I should be able to do it too (have more than one partner). In any case, I am trying to get over the bad boy phase. The reason why is because there are actually people who want to be with me who would cherish me and value me as a person. I have to get used to being with a person like this.
Me I prefer a bad boy over a player anyday. My ex husband was a player, only I didn't find out about it until after we were married. My boyfriend is a true bad boy. He is open and honest about everything. I don't have to worry about him cheating behind my back. He is very upfront about everything. He loves looking at butts and when we are out we look at them together.
