Most of the time it is my boyfriend who speaks firstly after a quarrel. It also depends. If i find i am the wrong side i would open my mouth firstly too. Who speaks firstly in your relationship after an argument?
I usually stay quiet after an arguement. But if i did something wrong and caused the fight, i will be the one to initiate to patch things up. But i rarely start the fight so i often just shut up after every erguement. And let the silence hit her. hehehe.
I usually start speaking after an arguement. I would always be the one who apologise to the opposite party even if i am not in the wrong. This is because i don't want the opposite party to have any "hard feelings" against me.
If I find that I'm in the wrong, I usually speak up first. But I'm stubborn and that usually takes awhile. She's pretty much the same. Fortunately though, our bouts never get too out of hand. So it's not that big of an issue.
100% for depends on the situation and that is right. Sometimes it is my husband or me. It is really depends on the issue and the situation. As much as possible, I don't want to wait how many hours or days to reconcile. Both of you will suffer if you are having a race of who will speak first.
I usually shut up whenever we fight but if i really want to point out something, she can never shut me up. After every fight, i always see to it if i was the cause of the fight i will be the one to initiate so we can easily patch things up. It is also tiring to always fight, right? It is always nice the kiss and make part though. But, the tension always make me want to light up a breather. hehehe... Who caused the fight should always initiate first, swallow our pride if we want a long and lasting love.
It depends on the situation, when my girlfriend cheated on me then it's on her but when I eat something what she wanted then it does not really matter.
I've tried apologizing after an argument and it usually leads to more hard feelings. It might not be the same for other people, though. In my situation, I've found it best just not to speak about the argument. Instead, I do something nice for him, like cook a special supper or offer to let him have time on our other computer while I spend time offline.
If you are in a fight and stop talking afterwards, it will be situational when it comes to who will talk first. Often its the person who feels that they were in the wrong, and just didn't want to admit it at the time. Other times it is just the more mature person who decides that the fighting isn't worth it.
It depends on who is most stubborn. Some people are determined to be right. Other people are relationship oriented and they want everything to be 'okay' whether they're right or not. Which person would have a tendency to be a peacemaker in the situation? It may have something to do with the personalities involved.
It depends on the situation. If I'm the one that started the quarrel, I would eventually apologize (after getting over my mild stubbornness). The same goes for him. He is kind of stubborn too though.
What if there is a good reason that you started the argument? I don't think I will be the first one to apologize. I won't apologize if he lied to me, wait me for hours or not showing up. I think I have the right not to.
