When is 'I love you' acceptable

Discussion in 'Ask the Opposite Sex' started by debs, Jun 9, 2011.


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    Level 4 Mingler 60%

    When do you guys feel most comfortable hear the 'I love you' words?

    How soon is too soon?

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    Level 3 Mingler 40%

    TO be honest, I dont think there is a time frame. If it is real anytime is right.

    Level 2 Mingler 20%

    I've only been in the situation once and she said it after a couple of months. Time isn't really a factor in my opinion the thing is that when you hear it you have to know that you have the same feelings. So its not a matter of when so much as a matter of do I love her too?

    Level 1 Mingler 0%

    I don't think I would be able to tell someone I loved them until at least 6-12 months. Got to make sure it's a genuine feeling, and not some random crush. Hopefully it would be the same for the other person. Once you can get used to someone and all the interest and stuff is worn off and still love them, than I think it's an appropriate time.

    Level 1 Mingler 0%

    Uh, I don't know. Maybe when I feel like the girl really loves me for who I am and not for the money, sex and other material things. I say "I love you" when I feel really happy and contented with her.

    Level 2 Mingler 20%

    I don't really know. I used to think you should wait at least six months to tell a person you live him/her. However, I am discovering that maybe guys are not so crazy when they say it only after a few weeks.

    I'm learning there's a big difference between saying "I love you" and saying "I want to marry you." I think it takes me alot longer to decide if I want to marry someone than it would if I were to be able to know I love someone.

    Level 1 Mingler 0%

    I don't really mind when it comes, as long as i feel the same way i don't see the problem with when it happens.

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