When you know your relationship is not going in the right direction, your partner thinks all is ok no matter how much you say it isnt....you are married and have a little one would you stay or would it be right to leave (even though there is a child)
Presuming you have already tried to work things out to the best of your ability and failed it's never right to stay with anyone you are genuinely not happy with. When there are kids involved it's difficult but you could be doing them more harm than good in the long run staying with a person you aren't happy with for the sake. However if you choose the leave just ensure that you maintain a healthy friendship with the father and ensure contact is maintained with father and children. But I think we all know deep in our hearts the answers to these types of question I think you know you really want out BUT don't know how to go about it and are scared of the consequences. But as I said to my auntie in a similar situation can you go living the rest of your life knowing you're going to be unhappy. Do what is right for YOU. Hope that helps. Good luck.
Yeah the thoughts of the little one being involved is one of the hardest pasrts but sometimes I wonder if I am hurt the little one (not physically) by staying I think deep down I know what I need to do as there is no love here at all, but saying that there isnt the rows either. I think that is why he doesnt think there is a problem. I wouldnt want the little one not to have contact with the dad as I know how important it is for the dad and child to stay in contact
If it is not going in the right direction i would not give up directly. Why cant it go in the right direction? I would firstly figure it out before i take the next action. Keeping a relationship needs joint efforts. If it could not work out no matter what efforts i make i will give it up even though i have children.
Give it a try. If the first didn't work, give it a couple more. Smile4u is right, it should be a joint effort. You both need to know what the problem is, and what you can do about it. People fall in love right? Why can't you with your present partner? It's not you can't learn to love him anymore. It is more likely you are stopping yourself from wanting to love him again. I know there are a lot of factors affecting your situation, but one thing for certain, you should always use your head (That's the one of the reasons why it is placed higher than our hearts...) Do what is right.
