Ok so I was with this girl. And she treat me really bad. When I say really bad I mean really bad you would have no idea. What she did to me was like something out of a soap opera she really did some crappy things. Anyway we've split and I really shouldn't miss her I should be thankful she is out of my life there is honestly no reason I should get back with her she was horrible and I can guarantee she hasn't changed. But I miss her. Songs remind me of her, everything reminds me of her. I miss her touch, her kiss everything. Though what she did was unforgivable we had many good times many laughters and the nice side of her was amazing we had so much in common I've never met anyone who was so like me in every way. I'm not sure why I'm even posting this tbh I actually hate myself for still wanting her it makes me angry yet at the same time I'm hurting because I miss her how can we love someone who hurt us so bad? sigh
Awww proclaim ((hugs)) It must be hard when you know it was bad for you but yet you crave the relationship. Maybe you are feeling this now, but in time when you find a girl who can show you the tenderness that you should have received you will feel so much differently. Please don't hate yourself and keep posting your feelings here the more you let some of it out and share the pain the easier it can come
it depends really if you want to get rid of her thoughts from you and make a clean start. Make another chance to be happy. You need to want to to move on. Write a list of all the bad things and burn them (safely)
What kate is saying is get in her side of your wardrobe rip all her cloths, cut holes in em throw em out the window and burn her car out pmsl
Lol @ land man that's actually how I feel and what I want to do but at the same time I do miss her. Thanks for the advice all.
Your welcome, on a more serius note. I hope it works out ok for you, and you manage to move on and find yourself a newer more sexyer model
Hmmm, Thats a tough situation. You love her but you could not put up with her treatment to you. Just let her go and set yourself free. I think the reason why you still have her in your mind is that you are still single at the moment. Dont miss her due to your loneliness. Try to go out and make friends with more girls out there. You might find the one suitable for you very soon.
I think you are just feeling lonely. My ex husband did a lot of horrible things to me that still affect me today but every now and then when I feel lonely I start to remember the few happy moments we had. No way in hell I would ever get back together with him. It is just companionship that I want but with someone that is worth it and is not going to step all over me.
Loving somebody and getting hurt at the end is not an uncommon story. It is said that it is always better to love someone and get hurt than not to love someone at all. The main reason why you are still longing for her love is because your mind is concentrating more on the positive sides of the past relationship. The best thing to do is to refocus your mind, energy and attention to other things more important and once you are ready open your heart for somebody else. There is no point of living in the shadow of the past.
You are just making your life more miserable. Not a single person in this room can even stop you. It is a personal choice when or not to quit. You should start thinking if you want these things still haunt you for the rest of your life. You are caged from her shadow. Let it go. You need to help yourself if you want some change. The future is vast and I know you can meet good ladies who can really love you unconditionally.
I think you deserve better, if she really did all those bad things. You're haunted by the good memories and all the nice moments, but those should just remain memories. You've probably heard this many times, but time does heal all wounds. Go easy on yourself and remember that you deserve to be loved.
