How long is it?

Discussion in 'Dating Romance & Relationships' started by debs, Apr 4, 2011.


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    How long is it that you and your partner have been together and how has the time been while together?

  1. Level 2 Mingler 20%

    almost 3 months for me, things are actually pretty awesome, but im trying not to count my chickens just yet, i have an amazing talent of messing things up! haha
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    1 year and 1 month here :D

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    almost a year now :)

  2. Level 1 Mingler 0%

    Around 6 months now :)

  3. Level 2 Mingler 20%

    me and my partner have been together a year in june after all the ups and downs, and were hopefully planning on moving in togther in around 5 weeks time should all go well xx

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    I hope it works out great for you. When i made the move with my ex it all went tits up and ended up leaving her. Thankfully i didnt give up my own place so i was able to return to my old life without too much bother.

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    eek don't say that this is the 1st time i've moved out of "home", my boyfriend was pretty much my rock last year and we weren't together then, i see it as where either gona get on great and love it, or it will all go pear shaped and i'll end up back home , but i guess i will never know unless i try x

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    Well my internet partner it has been some months now :D

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    16 years married

    18 year in total

  7. Level 2 Mingler 20%

    3 years and 4 months now ;)

    And I'm still madly in love!!

  8. Level 1 Mingler 0%

    1 year and 5 months. Like every relationship we've had some really bad times, and we've had some really good times. Hopefully things remain good and get better because this is the girl I one day plan to marry.

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    Almost 2 years now! :)

    By June next month, we'll be in our 2nd year anniversary! ;) Yehey! :D

    Of course, we had our downs. Mostly because of me (cheating and distance problem). :(

    I'm a new guy now. And as time grows, so do our relationship. :D

  10. Level 2 Mingler 20%

    WE have been together for about 5 months so far.
    He works in another town so we can only meet each other at the weekend; its hard for me :(
    Now he will soon have a long vacation and we could be together most of the time :)
    I love being with him though we quarrel a lot :p; it is just soooo sweet.
    --- merged: May 31, 2011 at 6:42 AM ---
    Madly in love? Wow! Thats really sweet!
    I wish our relationship could like like yours after many years.
    Any good tips about keeping good relationship?

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    Thanks! Hmm.. good tips:
    - don't doubt your relationship.
    - It's not always a fun trip. I mean: you WILL argue and there will be fights and times where you won't love each other that much anymore. But just hold on, it'll definitely be worth it in the end!
    - have a lot of respect for each other

    But it's strange to give tips, because these things usually work themselves out :)
    Ow yeah, when you reach 2-3years there will come a period where the "first-love" will go away and change into an "your my best friend and I love you"... It's hard to explain. You just love each other in a different way. And that's a weird thing to adjust to :p

  12. Level 3 Mingler 40%

    1 year and 1/2 now. Hoping that my visa will be approve soon so we can be together.. Everything goes fine plus ups and downs. God is good all the time. Everything is perfect in His time. :)

  13. Level 2 Mingler 20%

    Thanks sweetie.
    I think i just have given you a tough question which is difficult to explain.
    And i agree with yours that itself will work it out.
    I am still madly in love too but my situation is different from yours as we are still new couple.
    I am trying to learn how i can make our love last forever :D Maybe should not have worried so much.
    I believe trust, respect, understanding are all important to a healthy relationship.

  14. Level 2 Mingler 20%

    Yeah, you shouldn't worry about your relationship. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be :).
    And I agree with you that trust, respect and understanding are the most important aspects of any relationship.

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    What makes a girl cheat? I had a girl once. We were about to get married but she has to work so far away for 2 years first. Is long distance relationship that hard? Me, im a guy, i find it ok. Yes, affections, touch and all the things we use to do when we were still together are not applicable when she was there and i was here. A year after she met a guy then they clicked. He was her crying shoulder whenever she and i fight. The problem is, we fight because of that guy then she run to him cause she needed some shoulder to cry on. Talk about irony.

  16. Level 2 Mingler 20%

    Yes, trust is very important.
    I tried to make my previous relationship work but no matter how much effort i had made it was just out of my control and way. I had to let it go in the end. Now i believe if its meant to be, its meant to be :)

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