I hate the time when we make arguments and quarrel. We love each other a lot but i find we quarrel a lot too. I am thinking if this is normal for a healthy relationship. Any of you also make arguments and quarrel in your relationship?
There are a lot of relationships that are into the same situation that you and your partner are in. The love and strong bond is there but so is the consistent indifferences as manifested in quarrels. If my guess is right, you quarrel even with pity and unnecessary matters. I think the first thing to do is to conduct a good and thorough self-analysis as to why things transpired -- it is very important that you and your lover could come up with the roots of the problem so as to tackle the problem much easier. Talk to him and be honest in explaining that you are already tired of the set-up and ask the other person to also consider your point of view. Always capitalize on the strong emotional link you both already established. Honest and open communication plus an indefatigable love for each other could be the keys you can use.
We talked to each other again last night and he said that we should not quarrel again in the future. It was approved by me a long time ago. I dont like quarreling; it makes me very uncomfortable. I guess we differ a lot in habbits and thats the reason why we quarrel. Also i think each of us needs to be more patient and generous with each other. But the good thing is that it seems we love each other more after getting reconciled from a quarrel
But that's life. You're always going to quarrel at some point. The important thing is how you handle it and survive it. Even the best of relationships will have their rough spots. But if you truly love each other, you will work it through
I believed misunderstanding is always present in every relationship. Though you're fighting give time to settle everything. Don't let the sun go down with out ever thing unsettle. You can always talk with each other about the issue. Try to understand and respect each other ideas and opinion. Learn when is the best time to listen and talk. I am sure every thing will be fine with you and your partner. God bless..
Yes! We have trust and faith on each other and i believe no thing can make us separate. I will do everything i could do to make our relationship go smooth.
That's That's good. I am happy to hear that. Ignore the fighting. Fighting will develop your relationship and will make it stronger....
Yes it is pretty normal. Be mindful that the differences that you have, the bad things that you do or mannerisms and the like, at first will be tolerable and sometimes will look funny to the other person but as time pass by, what use to be funny will now be annoying. Good conversation is better. If you both can avoid nagging each other or making each other angry, the better. One should always give way, it won't solve anything if both are always angry at the same time. One should be cool when the other one is mad.
Yes, I quarrel a lot. But that is normall, it is weird when you don't quarrel. It is not possible that you always agree your girlfriend.
Some relationships thrive on upset and controversy, if only cause the people involved love drama. Though there is a big difference between bickering and actual arguments or fighting. When it comes to name calling and hateful words, you have moved beyond simple raised voices and disagreement. That's when a cooling off period might be required.
Fighting once in a while would be all right but if fighting every single day and every time the couple are together i would think there is something wrong with the relationship. It depends how the couple deal with it and make it work for the relationship --- merged: Jun 3, 2011 at 1:25 AM --- I could not bear the name calling and hateful words and i dont think such things should come out of the mouth of your beloved ones. It could be very hurtful. If he gets very very angry i would just keep silent and when he cools down its my turn You can not hit the ceiling at the same time; the house might be destroyed, lol
It pretty normal for me. The more you love a person, the more you notice things. My boyfriend and I, used to have some misunderstandings every week. It was quite stressful especially if it started out from pity things that grew to something bigger. But all those misunderstanding has lead us to how we are today. More understanding, more patient, cooler. If we see our discussion is leading to something that may ignite disagreements or misunderstanding we stop and change topic.
Oh dear. Quarreling with someone is considered normal. Even if you are with a person, that doesn't mean that the person is perfect in your eyes. Of course, the closer you're with each other, the more things you realize regarding that person's personality. We all have our differences and sometimes, they may pose a problem, but with constant trust and communication, I think the relationship would be good.
It'd be unhealthy NOT to quarrel. It's necessary to express your feelings and get to know each other better.
Arguments are a completely normal and necessary part of any relationship. The thing that matters most though is that you keep it from becoming a PETTY argument. Stay focused on the problem at hand. Don't go in trying to win the fight. You will end up bringing up old crap that doesn't even matter and escelate things.
I agree with Joe. Arguments are normal, but it depends on how you do it. Do you argue for the sake of arguing? Are there bigger issues you're not talking about when you argue? Do you try to communicate and get your points across in a respectful manner? I think arguing is a method of communication; and couples who don't have disagreements at all tend to scare me a little...
I don't argue in my relationships because it isn't important to me...that I be right. My partner can have their point of view and I have mine. Some people argue in relationships because they thrive on drama but I have a tendency to be a peacemaker. Some people would be bored to death...in a relationship...with me for that reason. I can live with that.
