Lets say you are in a new relationship now. Your ex is in a big trouble and he would like you to help him. What will you do? Will you still help him out?
Yes, I would still help her but not like before that i would go the extra mile for her. I would like her to feel that doing me wrong will make a difference. She will learn to live outside the comfort that i was giving her. A person will never know your worth unless you are already gone.
It depends on how we break up. If she cheated on me then I don't, but if we just break up because we don't love each other anymore then I will help her.
A person will never know your worth unless you are already gone - SO TRUE! People never treasure they already have, they only know how important it is when its gone. I also think you can help your ex but you must do it with limitations. --- merged: Jun 3, 2011 at 1:39 AM --- Yes, the reason why you two broke up can also be taken into account when it comes to helping him/her or not. If its because of something very unpleasant and you two dont talk to each other any more i dont think she/he would still ask help from you.
In my case if I had a boyfriend and my ex-husband would ask me for some help I would not. Reason why is because he is always getting into some kind of trouble and it's usually always his fault. If it were something that was not his fault then I would be more likely to help him out.
As an old friend, I will extend my hand for help. However, I will consult my boyfriend about it first. I don't want to get into trouble with my boyfriend because of an ex. If my boyfriend says, yes, then I'll help him.
It depends on what kind of trouble the ex was in. You were in a relationship with that person so you don't really want to turn a blind eye. But you must remember that your current relationship is more important then the past one, and if helping will make your current bf/gf uncomfortable, you shouldn't do it.
