So if a hot guy comes up to you, starts talking, giving you the look, using some cheesy pick up line what do you do? Do you innocently flirt with him and let him down easy if he asks you out or do you immediately put a barrier up and step away? I consider it okay to do some innocent flirting now and then and even if my partner was doing it I would not mind. I think it's kind of sexy in a way to have other girls checking out my guy and vise versa knowing that nobody else can have him. Do you think it's a way of cheating?
I think that looking is just fine and is very natural..I don't necessarily flirt with any other guys, nor does my husband, but I don't find that it's a form of cheating at all.
Id never flirt with any other guy while I'm in a relationship I never have done as Ive been brought up with that being in the wrong. If some guy started cheating me up flirting Id tell him that I'm in a relationship and that I'm not interested. I do class as flirting with someone else while in a relationship is cheating but its just the way Ive been brought up.
Never ok, flirting is a form of cheating because it is disrespectful to your boyfriend/husband. Flirting is also deceiving cause you are letting the person you are flirting with assume you are somehow attracted to them.
I just hope all girls are like you. I had a girl once, we were so inlove. But when she moved to another country, she can't stop herself from flirting to another guy. I told her not to test herself and should always avoid places that can tempt you. Sadly she never listened. I always believed that loneliness is never a reason to cheat or flirt.
If I care about the relationship I am currently involved in, I don't think I'll ever entertain flirty conversations. I'll keep a civil tone and conversation with the guy and do not encourage the guy to get flirty and comfortable with me. I don't even flirt with a friend as it may lead him to think crazy or misleading thoughts. Plus do unto other what you want other to do unto you. I don't think i'll be happy to see my boyfriend engage in a flirty conversation with another girl.
I think it's not right for a person to flirt when you are in a relationship, serious or not. You are practically betraying the person by doing that. If you are really not in love with your partner now, might as well break up with that person and look for someone that you can give your all faithfulness and love.
Admiring for me is just fine but do not go beyond that cause that is cheating. Both person involved in the relationship should not be getting out with another person specially if its not just a friendly date. Flirting is already cheating and maybe some would still flirt even in a relationship because they do not love each other that much.
I think there's a difference between joking around and flirting. I know there is a fine line, though. As long as it's not leading to temptation I don't see a problem. I think every couple should set their own boundaries in this area. I wouldn't mind, for instance, if my bf were to talk to a woman and joke around with her as long as he wasn't paying more attention to her than me on a regular basis. Also, if he comes home from a bar and still treats me the same I don't care how he talks to women at the bar.
Some people are naturally flirtatious and then they wonder why someone misunderstood. I read a book a while back called 'The Color Code' and a dominant yellow personality has a tendency to be quite playful even if they are in a committed relationship. I think it's important to understand that we are all designed to be unique individuals so..we probably shouldn't be...too quick to judge.
In my book, it's not ok. Are you going to notice other people? Yes. But, to flirt with someone is crossing a line. I know I would not be a happy camper if my boyfriend was flirting with girls. I'm pretty sure he feels the same way...or at least he better..lol.
