Remember yours I'm sure you do. Was my first "serious" relationship in 2006 we met (physically) lasted 2 and a half years never really loved anyone like that since. The break up was probably one of the hardest things I had to go through in my life. Dunno. I've become quite cynical when it comes to girls and always expect the worst now. Scared I'll feel like that again.
I know how you feel man, november 2009 was that first heart-crushing girl for me, it was horrible, made me a really cynical ass-hole to a lot of females, like i was taking it out on them for the way i felt, i think love is a magical thing but at the same time it can be horrible but i think you gotta go through things like that, it makes you mature
To be honest, I actually did the 'first heart break'. In other words, it was my fault and I was the mastermind behind it. I don't know. Distance was a threat for the both of us. I started cheating on her. Again, I know I had a choice. I was all childish and I wasn't even mature (but I thought I was). It affected her a major way. Her grades weren't good from the start but her perfomance was excellent. Ever since then, her grades started to flunk in and so did mine. I'm really sorry for what I did. I can never forgive myself for that. I opened up to her the other month and told her that I'm sorry. I miss her so much and I love her. Surprisingly, she still accepted my apology. I'm very blessed and fortunate to have her. Moral lesson(s)? Always have faith. Always look after each other. Distance can never separate you two in heart. All you need is care and respect!
Here here. I've hurt some females who I've been with and made some huge mistakes and as a result lost some amazing friendships. One person especially really treated me better than anyone gave up a lot for me put me first in every way and I repaid her by putting her second. Story of my life I suppose we learn from our mistakes though!
My first heart break was only about 6 months ago. I am currently still trying to get over it, and I am even tearing up thinking about it!
It happened to me too. Its like i have lost myself. I lost the confidence to live in this world. I thought i could never fall in love with any guy again in the future. The appearance of my boyfriend changed my thought. He is considerate and caring and i just fell in love again! So sweet!
