Come on guys. I know everyone always says a combination of the two. BUT. If it came down to it and you had to choose one of the other. Would you go for someone amazing looking with a crap personality or would you go for someone with a great personality who is ugly. I think it's an interesting one if you watch shows like dating in the dark you see that looks matter regardless of how nice someone wants to be saying it doesn't matter physical attraction has to play a part in it. I don't think this is shallow because physical attraction is different to everyone who I find beautiful you could find ugly. Personality can be changed along with bad behaviour and habits looks can't be so I would choose looks over personality.
always personality always i dont care how a girl looks if she has a good personality thats all that matters really
I love a girl to have a great personality but if you are not attracted to her physically it aint ever gonna work out let me put this in simple terms lol, you cant f*** a personality! haha
I would go for Personality 100% looks are a bonus but very much Personalit. As this is what you build you relationship and values with in the first place and in my eye its what you first fall in love with.
Same with me, before i met my fiance i was just aiming for the ones with good lucks but i have settled down with someone with mediocre looks and a great personality
But if you don't pay attention (sure! You can take a look or two. Just pay your attention to the personality ) Honestly, even if your partner ain't the most beautiful person in the whole wide world - you'll still get that feeling that he or she is. I think it's all about appreciation. Besides, that 'good-looking' person probably isn't the most beautiful person in the whole wide world either! So why spend so much of your effort to someone who's not worth it, anyway! Open up, ladies and gentlemen. There are so many beautiful and handsome (kind too!) men and women in this world.
There's obviously a fine line, but I'd be perfectly willing to knock the looks down a few pegs in exchange for a solid personality. If there's one thing I can't stand it's girls who are just totally flipping stupid.
I'll go for personality but I'd not say Looks don't play a part. I've met a lot of nice girls that aren't good looking, and their out-going personality outshines everyone including the pretty ones. But of course she has to look good enough.
I go for personality, because whats the point in being miserable with someone even if they are good looking on the outside? I've noticed eventually people tend to look past the looks anyway, whether they are good looking or not, and make their decision. My friends tell me I have weird taste anyway, some girl I think is a knockout they think is ugly and they give me grief for it lol.
Wow! Look at the vote. 90% of the people here say personality is more important. Indeed! If you can choose between a girl who is beautiful in look but ugly inside and the girl who is beautiful inside while plain in look, which one will you choose? My boyfriend is homely but i love him for whom he is. I think he has a decent personality.
Looks is what attracts me at first, but when I see bad attitudes in a person, although he's the most gorgeous one, I'll slowly avoid him. Thus, what is more important is personality. Personality defines a person's character and breeding.
I would go to personality. After that i will work very hard and save money so i'll be able to take her to a surgeon and help make her beautiful. lol. Just kidding. Seriously, we first tend to be attracted to a person physically. As time pass us by, we get to know the perso's personality. If we don't like it, the love fades away. Where in if we get to know a person not buy her looks, as we spend more time with them, we learn more about her, we learn to love her. Like a beer, at first you don't really like it but the more you take it in the more you get addicted to it.
No one wants to get stuck with a bubble-headed pretty girl who can't carry on a conversation or super cute guy that is dumb as a bag of rocks. Of course, looks plays a part in every attraction, but without a good personality, nice sense of humor and considerate manner, what do you really have?
Personality is more important, even if I just want to have sex with the girl. If I don't get along with her or find her interesting, sex won't be that great. It really doesn't matter how good looking she is if the sex sucks.
